Temple Etiquette: A Guide to Visiting Temples in Southeast Asia

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When traveling to Southeast Asia, it’s almost inevitable to visit one (or many) of the region’s temples. Hindu, Buddhist, Taoist, or a combination of all three, the temples represent the rich cultural and historical heritage of the region and are not only tourist attractions but functioning places of worship. Regardless of the religion, there are a few etiquette rules that are essential to follow when visiting them.

Here are some temple etiquette tips to help you show respect while visiting Southeast Asian temples:

Be Mindful When Taking Photos

Taking photos in temples is allowed, but it’s important to be mindful of your pose. Avoid taking photos with your back facing a Buddha image or standing too close to the statue, as this is considered disrespectful. If you want to take a photo of or with a monk, always ask for permission first. Public displays of affection are also considered rude on temple grounds.

Woman meditating in Angkor Wat.
A woman walking through the temple of Wat Preah Prom Rath in Siem Reap.

Also read: Angkor Wat – The Ultimate Guide for First-Time Visitors

Dress Appropriately

Before entering a temple, be aware of the dress code. Both men and women are required to cover their knees and shoulders and take hats off on the monastery grounds. Tight or see-through clothing is not allowed, so it’s best to wear loose-fitting clothes. If you’re unsure what to wear, bring a scarf or shawl that you can easily put on. Flip flops or easy-to-remove shoes are recommended since you’ll need to take them off when entering the temple.

A couple walking on the grounds of The Federal Territory Mosque in Kuala Lumpur.
Woman turning around in a skirt at the colorful stairs of the Batu Caves in Malaysia

Keep Your Voice Low

Temple grounds are typically quiet, and it’s important to keep your voice low to maintain a peaceful atmosphere. If you have children, keep them close to you and remind them to speak softly.

Don’t Touch Monks

Physical contact with a monk is considered disrespectful, especially for women. This tradition is stronger in Thailand and if a woman needs to give something to a monk, she should put it on the ground or give it to a man who can pass it along. If she accidentally touches a monk, he will need to go through a cleansing ritual.

Note: as women are not allowed to touch monks and vice versa, the Sak Yant traditional tattoo, which is performed by monks, is only allowed for men.

As general rules, you should remember to bow slightly in the presence of older monks and avoid sitting on a higher level than the monks, as the head is believed to be the cleanest part of the body, and the foot is the dirtiest.

A monk dressed in white, looking to the camera and sitting on a temple in Angkor Wat.

Pro tip: when in Luang Prabang, make sure not to miss the Alms Giving Ceremony at sunrise, where you can witness the locals making offerings city’s monks.

Avoid Eating and Smoking

Eating in the temple is not allowed since monks are not permitted to eat after noon. Smoking, spitting, or chewing gum are also prohibited.

Respect Buddha

Never touch a Buddha statue and avoid taking photos with your back facing a Buddha image as it is considered disrespectful. You should also never point at a Buddha statue with your fingers or feet – women should kneel with their toes pointing behind them, while men should sit with their legs crossed.

Offering of a flower in front of a a golden buddha statue, in a white pagoda in Sri Lanka.
A buddha statue sitting at the end of an old looking temple made of rocks, in Angkor Wat.

Also read: Top 12 Things to Do in Siem Reap – Beyond Angkor Wat

As a final temple etiquette tip, contribute what you can to the donation box! It doesn’t have to be much – one euro goes a long way, especially if the temple did not charge an entrance fee.

By following these simple etiquette guidelines, you’ll be showing respect for the culture and history of the temples you visit in Southeast Asia!

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